ive had this girl since a heifer. she was always very sweet and loved her scratches. this winter before she calved i halter broke her, taught her to stand tied, and trained her to walk into the stanchion while i secured her head and brushed her, and sat beside her messing with her udder/belly/legs. she calved and it all went lovely. this is her first lactation and ive been milking for almost two months. she had been very gentle, no kicking or anything so we started calf sharing. she gets the calf for the day after milking and then i pull it off for night. she is suddenly turning really ornery. i keep a halter on her, but i still CANT catch her without roping her. if i dont rope her she keeps her face in the corner with her butt to me. and she will wait for me to come close so she can get a kick in if i try to come up and grab her halter. she still comes to her name when i call. but no scratches aloud, shows no friendliness what so ever. not sure that im doing anything different, other than that she would like her calf ALL the time and me never preferably😂 she still milks lovely once i actually get her into the stanchion, but im tired of the fight lol. ive never let her get away with anything... but any tips? do cows just tend to get ornery as they age? or is it the calf? shes jersey x fleckvieh cross