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CntryBoy777

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I have withheld some news here in hopes that "Family Laundry" would not be aired, but in light of the situation I would not feel right about sharing the reason "Why" things may be chaning here in the not too distant future. My Dad passed away on Dec 8th....his 95th birthday....there has been history in our past that have kept us at odds, but I did love, respect, and honored him as well as I knew how to do, but it is very difficult to care for and about another that doesn't appreciate or even care about it their self. My sister was in charge of things and set things up for his burial and told us it was to be just a graveside service....I've been waiting for her to let us know the arrangements, tho I wasn't planning on going....but, Joyce and DD3 were planning on going. Well, we found out today....from a FB post that the services were already set and he was to be buried today....I sent her a text and asked her if she had set anything yet and she texted back that she had and they were on their way to the cemetary....this was at 1:30pm and the service and burial was set at 2 and the cemetary is 2hrs south of here. I told her Thanks for the notice. Now, I don't trust her at all and her words are as worthless as ashes....so, until there are some definites that we can count on....Everything here is on HOLD. We are making plans just in case, of possibly vacating the premises and having to go elsewhere. I didn't post this for condolences or sympathy, but just to inform you all....my Friends....of the goings on and possibilties that may come with these recent developements. We may be looking for somewhere else before long....we'll be taking Callie and Gabbie with us, but will liquidate all the others. I will keep y'all posted as to how things develope.
 

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No squabble like a family squabble. I hope that things can remain on friendly terms. Wouldn't you inherit half of the property? Not prying, but wouldn't it be divided? I sure hate that y'all might have to relocate.
 

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No squabble like a family squabble. I hope that things can remain on friendly terms. Wouldn't you inherit half of the property? Not prying, but wouldn't it be divided? I sure hate that y'all might have to relocate.
Not necessarily....she had it set-up in a trust and with her holding the outright power of attorney my brother and I could be left out....my brother and Dad were on worse terms than him and me....so, if she lied about informing us about any service times and dates, then I wouldn't trust anything else that she has said to this point. If she wants it or sells it she can have it....I don't fight for anything, but she will get her just reward if she does do that.....ill gains does not equate to a happy life....or what is faced after this life.
 

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Did your dad have a will? I hold power of attorney for my parents, but I couldn't write my brother out of the will even if I wanted to. Also, even without a will usually assets of the deceased are divided equally among siblings. You are quite likely entitled to your portion without needing to fight for it. However, trusts can be a little trickier....
 
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