CntryBoy777 - The Lazy A** Acres Adventures

Hang in there Fred... It's a road you're on and you have to travel it but eventually you'll get to the end of it. Forget about the sister and the daughters and just concentrate on you and Joyce. If the two of you can carry on through and find happiness for each other, the rest just won't really matter.

Am on the other end trying to help mom relocate and down size... can be frustrating on both ends. But I totally agree a bought home make more sense than a trailer on a lot.

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Hang in there Fred... It's a road you're on and you have to travel it but eventually you'll get to the end of it. Forget about the sister and the daughters and just concentrate on you and Joyce. If the two of you can carry on through and find happiness for each other, the rest just won't really matter.

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Agree!!! Do what is best and what's right for you and Joyce! You can't please everyone!

CntryBoy -- your heart is in the right place -- trying to settle where Joyce will feel good about the future. But she will not feel good if her own dtrs want to run her life. Get something large enough for you two to enjoy and small enough that it is not overwhelming!! Some chickens, ducks, a garden -- "maybe" even a goat (they seemed more your thing, in my readings). Room enough to not have to hear the neighbors argue, close enough to get help if needed. A couple acres would work for that. You two can make new friends!!

Besides that -- WE are all here for you both!!!

PS I think we are due a Gabbie pic.

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We found us a Lawyer today and he is very confident that this can all be handled....and assured us that the date of Aug 1st is not an issue on several different fronts. He isn't cheap, but he isn't outrageous either, so we gave hime the retainer today and he said that once he vets things started that Mrs Williams will be forced to sit down for negotiations....I said that I would like to see that....and he got one of those grins on his face and said she won't have a choice. He held onto all of the evidence that I had and will be talking to the doctor here shortly.........we have also made a few decisions in the process...we will stay put for the time being and see how things unfold....and if we do have to move, we will find us an acre or 2 and have our trlr moved to it and live there while we build our credit rating and then if we wish to buy something, we will keep the trlr as rental property and extra income for Joyce if time catches up to me. We are comfortable in this area and we love our doctor and other aspects of the community. The lawyer believes we have a really good shot at keeping the house, becahse of the history and longevity of us being on the property, where the others have not and could be settled with acres for them.
We would like to thank ALL for their prayers and support thru this very difficult time.... ....it isn't over yet tho and until there is a true settlement, there won't be a celebration....but, a reprieve sure feels Good right now!!....
Oh, and for @Mini Horses and those that are missing Gabbie....here she is....

Fred - at least now you have a reason to not being anywhere near sure to be losing everything. The glass half full that you usually support fits this one as well.

sounds good

Great news. A good attorney can be worth it and you may be VERY surprised at the outcome. We are all still praying for the situation to end well.

Thanks for Gabbie fix.

I'm just really very thankful that I found someone to at least listen and look at what I had put together. He is taking a bit of a different angle on things, but he has experience and that is what we are paying him for....I think there will be shock and panic when the papers are served to her....cause she isn't expecting a Fight....it will be interesting to watch things unfold and my brother has joined the suit also.

That's really uplifting news Fred. I sure hope it all works out.