promiseacres
Herd Master
Ok so a brief background. Last year my Mom offered her deceased husband's horse, Duke. Duke is a 18 year old Morgan. Has been extensively trail ridden, ect. I rode him on the trails and felt he would do ok, though he does like to lead and can get a bit antsy. In college I rode ALOT and all kinds of horses. but since then haven't had riding horses due to life and no one to ride with. My kids are 2, 5 and 8. So it seemed like a good thing to back into. We went camping with the horses with family later in the summer borrowed their horses. Just as it wasn't easy to bring Duke and the camper.... Duke did pretty good last summer and fall, was rode by a friend's daughter and my own kids in our horse pens. And my Mom offered us Magician his brother, we knew Magician needed more time but he ended up being a total BUTT.... so sent him back. And in the meantime (a family of 5 does need more than 1 horse, right?) I found and bought Richie, my hafflinger.
In any case last week I had a Whitney, who trains as a hobby come give the Duke and Richie a spring tune up as it's been since December that Duke had been worked.... And Richie can be somewhat spooky but just mostly looks. I frankly can be a timid rider and am not a trainer. So she's focusing on Duke as he's showing a lot of attitude and being a butt. Not bad but it's making me realize despite his age and training he needs regular riding.... My DH who last fall was all for the 2nd trail horse.... has not ridden since September. And many times fusses when I do work with them as there's other "more" important things to do. Sometimes he might be right, but the horses NEED time if they are going to be safe sane trail horses. I don't know... he's upset I'm paying someone to work with them as he thinks I should be able to do it....but when and when they are naughty I again am not a trainer.... DH does have issues with pain in his bad ankle, that was broke 2 years ago and I know he prefers trail riding other than riding on our 4 acres.... I guess I should of stuck to 1 horse... and we could borrow when/if he decides he wants to ride. but now I have Richie, who frankly is sincerely a horse I've wanted for a long time. And is such a kind hearted boy. Am very tempted to send Duke back to my Mom's BUT she never enjoyed riding him and really wants him to stay in the family, and she DOES not need another horse, she's still trying to decide who stays down to 6 from 12. Or my friend's who introduced me to Whitney are looking for a horse... not sure he's a good match but can talk to Whitney about that as she's been giving lessons to their daughter. I think he'll be good but needs worked consistently and am sure certain fussy behaviors she's working with him on were ignored in the past. If I knew for sure I had someone to come over and ride I wouldn't worry so much. My oldest likes to ride but he's a boy and not super into it.... and my girls are just too young to ride/work a horse UGH!!!! thanks for reading and open to any outside opinions. Am so excited to be have riding horses again but really feeling like it's getting too stressful.
In any case last week I had a Whitney, who trains as a hobby come give the Duke and Richie a spring tune up as it's been since December that Duke had been worked.... And Richie can be somewhat spooky but just mostly looks. I frankly can be a timid rider and am not a trainer. So she's focusing on Duke as he's showing a lot of attitude and being a butt. Not bad but it's making me realize despite his age and training he needs regular riding.... My DH who last fall was all for the 2nd trail horse.... has not ridden since September. And many times fusses when I do work with them as there's other "more" important things to do. Sometimes he might be right, but the horses NEED time if they are going to be safe sane trail horses. I don't know... he's upset I'm paying someone to work with them as he thinks I should be able to do it....but when and when they are naughty I again am not a trainer.... DH does have issues with pain in his bad ankle, that was broke 2 years ago and I know he prefers trail riding other than riding on our 4 acres.... I guess I should of stuck to 1 horse... and we could borrow when/if he decides he wants to ride. but now I have Richie, who frankly is sincerely a horse I've wanted for a long time. And is such a kind hearted boy. Am very tempted to send Duke back to my Mom's BUT she never enjoyed riding him and really wants him to stay in the family, and she DOES not need another horse, she's still trying to decide who stays down to 6 from 12. Or my friend's who introduced me to Whitney are looking for a horse... not sure he's a good match but can talk to Whitney about that as she's been giving lessons to their daughter. I think he'll be good but needs worked consistently and am sure certain fussy behaviors she's working with him on were ignored in the past. If I knew for sure I had someone to come over and ride I wouldn't worry so much. My oldest likes to ride but he's a boy and not super into it.... and my girls are just too young to ride/work a horse UGH!!!! thanks for reading and open to any outside opinions. Am so excited to be have riding horses again but really feeling like it's getting too stressful.