I am so sorry for your family's huge loss, my heart aches for you,...... big hugs SBC .......i just felt that i needed to add..... SBC , your compassion that you shared with me with our recent losses.....you truly are "a special person" and I can feel your love and compassion through a computer screen as well as your deep sorrow , it is so evident that your BYH family loves you, i hope you can find some comfort in that ... your friends are here for you .
Please know he will always be by your side and he is grateful for the life he had with you. Know that his time had come and there was nothing that would have changed the outcome. I pray for you and that you will heal.