Devonviolet
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My husband waited all his life to be a.......(fill in the blank) It is a joke between us as he was single, living in the fast lane, a party animal....... a city boy.....then BAM! He laid eyes on me, lost his heart and his life has never been the same. Bless his lil' ol' pea pickin' heart......
I turned his life upside down, inside out, and have had him doing things he never dreamed of in his worst nightmares. He's been in the thick of things since he married me. Cows, chickens, pigs, more chickens, horses, a pet pot belly pig, dogs, more dogs, gardening, making him turn around for bags of leaves out by the curb (to put in the chicken coop/run-makes lovely compost several months later) moved him out of our 2500 sq ft nice brick home downtown in our former small town to a 1500 sq ft doublewide so far out in the sticks that it took 7 months to find an internet provider.
He dug the hole and prayed over our daughter's dead pet chicken, went and bought me a longhorn bull because I remarked 3 weeks earlier that I had always wanted a longhorn, cried with me when a newborn baby mule died in my arms, celebrated with me when the next mule born was perfect and healthy, hauled cows, fed horses, bought hay, worked his tail off hauling loads of horse poop for the garden and has had my back in every wacky crazy idea I have had. At least his life is not boring.![]()
this is so funny! And so true! I've talked to Baymule's DH. He's everything she said - and more! (Quote from frustratedearthmother) OH wow - you could be describing MY husband and his newlife, lol. We've been together 15 years now and his story is exactly as you described! The first time I asked him to help pull a baby goat you shoulda seen his face! But, his remark: "I'm a nurse - I'll try" and he did! Bless his lil' ol' pea pickin' heart!
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What a stitch! My story is similar to both of yours.

DH and I are going on 17 years married. I'm a retired nurse. When we got married, neither of us had even dreamed of living on acreage, or having goats and chickens. After realizing the toxic world we live in, and how sick it had made me, I started dreaming about having land where we could raise our our own food. It took a while for DH to come on board, but he is making a valiant effort to make my dream come true.
Actually, the dream has become his dream too! 
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Some say they find it relaxing... sorry, I don't. I DO however love fresh food from said garden. Any of those other things mentioned, no problem! I HAVE come to the conclusion that doing all these self sufficiency things is MUCH easier when you have a companion to help and give you a reason to continue... I find it easier to tackle all these jobs when I'm doing it for the benefit of another rather than myself. I just don't have "another" to be doing it for, so sometimes have to fight to get motivated.
so, we rented 2 spaces at a farm based community garden. We had one of the best maintained gardens (out of 65) and managed the work load (in spite age related aches & pains. 
). DH carried his share of the workload, and we proved, to ourselves, that we could raise more than we could eat.
This year we have been too busy with building and animals. But, have also been working on laying the foundation for a garden, by making multiple piles of compost, that we let the chickens help us with. 