Thieves, especially those trying to finance a drug problem don't care one bit how much kindness is shown to them. A kind person's possessions will sell just as easily as a gruff person's will.
I'm sure you are correct but I need to look at it from a more strategic point of view. I'm unarmed. I have a gentleman on my doorstep who is acting suspiciously. My wife and children are around. I see myself as having 2 courses of action.
1. Tell the person who already seems to have an hostile intention to get off my property.
2. Show kindness to him.
Experience would tell me that showing aggression to a person who is already hostile leads to greater hostility. Since I'm unarmed, have loved ones near and he looks like hes more experienced in combat then CoA 1 doesn't seem to have the greatest chance of a positive outcome.
Showing him kindness might not make him not want to come back but it doesn't aggravate a situation which is already tense. At the very least he would leave the rest unharmed and give us time to prepare a bit and not be so lax. Plus as many others here have stated, there are other things besides a gun which can help to deter people who would bring harm to my family.
Trust me when I say, not having a weapon is a sore in my side which I am very unhappy about, but if I rely on only one means of defense then I may as well stop even trying.
My sister also mentioned a taser. I'm not a big fan of them because I've seen people shot by police with them and it took 3 hits to bring them down. Not the outcome I'd be looking for but perhaps better than nothing. I have a bow and arrow....better than nothing again. The gate at the front is nice along with the security alarm. My wife sent a link to a system which lets you know when someone is pulling in the driveway but the best that does is give you an early warning. Still many things to consider
Today however, went well. The weather is a very pleasant mid 80s with low humidity. My children and I were able to pick up two trailer loads of wood from the tobacco barn tore down and get it stored. Hopefully tomorrow we'll be able to get some more.
The milk production in my ewe seemed to be tanking and it seemed a bit early.
i found out why. It's because the lamb from the other mom ewe is eating off my milker too. :/