@BrahmerQueen Opps, I didn't mean have her show there in August. I meant go watch this year and plan to try next year/ similar shows later this year. That was example of rules and the shows I was finding local-ish.
@Ridgetop We've tried going to the local 4H group for multiple meeting this spring. Introduced ourselves, helped setup/ teardown tables and chairs. Unless I cornered someone, no one would talk to us.
And the summer meeting were basically role call of who went where and what they won. This school year we are going to try next town over...
You can always start your own club. You will need to sign up and take the leader training (only 1 day). All you need are 5-10 kids and 3 families. Then you can choose your own projects and the parents that have preferences for teaching (or doing and learning) certain things can be leaders. As leaders you will get all the information about stuff from the 4-H staff at your County Extension office. Might be easier than joining a club that has people that are not welcoming. It will certainly be easier setting your own meeting schedule. And when your kid's school friends hear you are starting a new club, they will probably want to join your club. No rush yet. What ages are your kids?
