Just a note that I wanted to share with all that were sending their support. My father is making an UNPRECEDENTED recovery from the stroke and the carotid surgery. From no response on his right side, and things looking like he would be in a wheelchair with constant care, he went to rehab with some feeling coming back in his right side and his speech improving. He had no short term memory of what had happened when they took him to the rehab but understood when they said he had a stroke due to the 98% blockage of the carotid artery on the one side. He could say a few words, could use his left hand to feed himself somewhat and could stay upright if helped up, for a short period of time, and recognized my brothers. He has now been in the rehab, for about a month, maybe 5 weeks. He has pretty much regained his short term memory, and only has a loss of words occasionally....which, he// so do I at times or can't remember names.... he has nearly full use of his right side, is walking with a walker now and is doing an "obstacle course" at the end of the hallway near the nurses station which is 100 feet or more from his room and walks back several times a day. He can manage the bathroom by himself they say so that is a big boon to anyones' dignity. He is still weak, needing to build back up his strength, which anyone does after major surgery. It is thought that he will pretty much regain to where he was before and maybe better since there is better blood flow.
So I say THANK YOU to all who offered their good wishes and support. My brother said he is getting back to being his usual ORNERY self.... HAHAHA. That is good for all concerned up there. I hope that he will be able to go back "to normal" and maybe be a little humbled by this and realize how much everyone does care and be a little more agreeable to all. Regardless, I hope that he continues to have a good recovery and can soon go home to mom. They have taken her to see him a couple of times, they say she recognizes him, and I hope for her sake that he continues to get better. It is still a difficult situation with her inability to do anything anymore, but maybe he will be able to see the situation more clearly as to what he can and cannot do. My son will be going up as soon as they get some of the overnight accommodations straightened out. My sister is up there and they still cannot stay at the house. She is with my brother for a couple of days, that manages the Christmas tree farms at the one farmhouse that my brother has leased for the time being. The brother that is the POA and all, is on his fishing boat with charters and is in daily phone contact. They said my father can answer and talk on the phone like normal and are now encouraging phone calls, and mental stimulation, so I am sure we will all be calling.
Thank you all again.